Family Life
Hello 2014

Friends,
How was your start into the new year? Our’s has been slow; in fact it came to a full stop. Remember the party I was planning? Ha, well it never happened. After preparing, cleaning, and shopping, our kids started getting sick one by one. Consequently the people we invited opted out to not be exposed to our germs. I can’t blame them. So we had a quiet night with our visiting friends, the Hollands, eating a lovely dinner and watching two movies.
The flu hit us all pretty hard. It’s been 4 years since I have been this sick. But I must say, I am thankful for the timing. I’m glad it didn’t mess up our Christmas, and I am glad we are getting it out of the way before school starts.
So on to the new year. What are your hopes and dreams? Mine are decluttering the house, doing some home-improvements, but most of all having more adventures and traveling more, and visiting more with with our families. Tentative plans are meeting up with my sister and her crew over spring break in Phoenix. This year marks our 20th anniversary, so we are hoping to do something special for that. I’m also hoping we will have family visiting us. How about you, any fun trips planned for this year? Or a fun stay-cation?
I really hope to be back to my regular posting schedule next week. Thank you all for your patience!
Stay healthy,
Sofija
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Preparing for New Year’s Eve!
How was your Christmas? Was it what you hoped for, or where there a few surprises? I was dreading mine a little bit, as it was our first year celebrating Christmas without our oldest son. His aunt and uncle graciously flew him to California to spend Christmas with my husband’s family. It wasn’t easy letting him go. But I am glad he has the opportunity. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be (though I missed him), largely because I was distracted with visitors. Dear friends we know from my husband’s time in grad school spontaneously showed up on Christmas Eve with all the trimmings for an awesome late lunch and early dinner. I love when that happens! Christmas day was pretty uneventful, which in our house is a good thing. On Saturday we took the kids sledding. In my book it doesn’t get much more Christmassy than that. Never mind that one of our children fell face down in the snow on the first run. Thank God she is tough and we still had a great time. All in all I call that a good Christmas break. How about you? What traditions make it more complete for you?
Now on to the New Year. Any plans? We still are working out some of the details, but it looks like we will be having a party at our house. We haven’t had one in a few years. Growing up in Germany New Years was a BIG deal (sort of like the 4th of July here). It was hard adjusting to the fact that in this country it might or might not be a big deal,and that many people seem content to go to bed at 10.Over the years as we have added kids to our family big parties were less and less doable for us. Needless to say I am really looking forward to having a party again. It’s my Birthday as well so it makes it extra special.
But before I have some shopping to do…
Sofija
Photo credit: Hannah Scott-Stevenson for Tutu Monde
Christmas Photo Shoot
Here is our 2013 Christmas photo shoot. It was very spontaneous, yet I am happy how it turned out. On Saturday we woke up to a new batch of snow. Emily was available to take pictures, so we decided to do it an hour later. The first one is so sweet. Tasha really wasn’t sure about this shoot; and she was cold when I took her jacket off. So she snuggled up against me to stay warm.
My vision for this shoot was to have the kids walking in the snow, pretending they are delivering presents.
I didn’t really plan for these two crazies to take off with the wheelbarrow. Somehow Shane decided to push the wheelbarrow and Ella jumped in and the whole thing turned into a wild ride. I love when a shoot brings out the kid’s personalities.

It was Emily’s idea to have the kids stand in one line pretty much at the same spot we took pictures last year. I love the brightness and colors of this picture.
Lastly a fun silly picture.
What a fun shoot! I had been wanting to do something like this every since I saw these photos.
Have a lovely day,
Sofija
All pictures taken by Lonely Mountain Photography. Styling by Sofija Burton.
Happy 4th Advent
A House Filled With Music
Friends,
I apologize for keeping an erratic posting schedule this week. This last week was filled with music, concerts, late nights (really late), great conversations, friends coming and going. And now reality has hit me hard. It is less than a week till Christmas! I am so not ready, and I dread going shopping so close to Christmas.
One of my favorite moments this past week is pictured above. Graig and Graciana Holland were practicing with our friend Jon for a show. I am not a musical person; I tried and failed at the recorder and gave up right then and there. I cannot sing either. But I really appreciate other people who are musical. And when they play at my house it is the best.
So that is what I will remember this next week amidst all the shopping, packing (for Finn as he will be spending Christmas with his cousin), cleaning, and wrapping.
I hope your week and preparations are going well.
See you back here soon,
Sofija
Sisters
16 Days Until Christmas
Last week we went to see the Nutcracker, had our St. Nikolaus celebration, baked cookies, and bought our tree yesterday. I thought Christmas preparations were coming along pretty smoothly…until I realized this morning that we have company coming on Wednesday and our guest bathroom drain is clogged. Has been clogged for a while now. But I failed to mention it to the husband until this morning. Which makes husband very unhappy and added a whole lot of stress to our week. I hate when I forget these minor details…
Does this happen to you? One day you feel like your life is going pretty well, and the next day it all turns into an uncontrollable mess? The clogged drain is not the only thing on my to do list this week: I got the house to clean, children to teach (I promised my 12 year old to help her study for her semester test which takes hours), I’m doing extra laundry because somebody had an accident, the list goes on. On days like this I am so grateful that I have two older children who can really help with cleaning and cooking.
What do you do when life gets crazy? I alternate between focusing just on the things that absolutely have to get done, and being so frazzled that I waste time on non-essentials. I really hope I can pull of the being focused part this week. If you don’t hear from me the next few days, you know why…
Have a wonderful week you guys, may it go smoother than mine!
-Sofija
Night Hike
Have you ever been on a night hike? Would you try it?
I went on my first one last night with my friend Judy. We borrowed my husband’s bike lights (he goes mountain biking at night), so we could see very well. And we went on a hike we had done lots of times before. I wasn’t about to get lost at night. I have to admit we were a little spooked out by the thought of meeting a mountain lion (which we didn’t). But other than that it was so much fun and adventurous. We had a great view of the city lights down below. My I phone picture above doesn’t do it justice, but you get the idea. This morning it is snowing in New Mexico. Now I’m thinking I would like to try a night hike in the snow next…
Have a great day,
Sofija
New Photos of Me
Remember the recent photo shoot I did with Emily for my blog? I asked her to take some pictures of me as well. Of course Emily added a generous amount of photo editing. I asked my children how different I look here and in their usual honest candor the answer was: ” It is the pretty you!” 🙂
Hat: The Gap
Have a lovely day,
Sofija
















