I’m curious, do you let your kids use public transportation? Or if they are still too young, what thoughts do you have on that topic?
When I was my daughter’s age (above picture) my friend and I got on a train and went to Munich (a six hour ride). We visited a relative of hers, but I distinctly remember touring the city just the two of us. A year of so later my family and I were visiting friends near Munich. A planned a day trip all by myself to the city, doing an art tour visiting different art museums (how exactly I planned this before the internet is beyond me). I have done many city trips alone in my teenage years. To me that was part of being an urban European, you should be able to navigate any city on your own!
Now that I am raising 4 daughters I am surprised that I feel uneasy about letting them travel by themselves. It’s one thing to put them on a train (above) or plane when they get picked up on the other end. But the thought of her and a friend traveling to a nearby city would scare me big time. I always want to send her big brother along for protection. The problem is the big brother has no interest in sight seeing or adventure trips in urban settings…
Now that my daughter has figured out she can get places on the train I will have many more opportunities to wrestle with this topic…
It was one year ago on May 29, 2012 when I started this blog. Thank you to my faithful readers for sticking with me and for all the kind comments! I love you guys!
Looking back at this last year I am surprised how easy it is to write a blog, and how hard it is to write a blog. Easy in terms of set up, get it going, and doing posts. Hard in terms of keeping it going, learning all the ins and outs of blogging. Some days it takes me 10 minutes to do a blog, sometimes several days. What I have learned from the best bloggers out there that is that they make it look effortlessly.
For me it has been a wonderful creative outlet. But it wouldn’t be as fun if I couldn’t share it with you!
Have you ever entertained the thought of packing up your entire family and transplanting them to a really exotic place? Or leaving the hustle bustle of Western life and serving as one cohesive unit in a third world country? I have many times and I have been so inspired how this family did both.
1. Tell us about your family. Who lives with you?
Diane: Our family is 7 people: Mike and Diane and our 5 kids – Wes (17), Olivea (15), Audrey (12), Miranda (11), and Elaina (10).
2. What are you doing in Nicaragua? What brought you here?
What brought us here…Our church has partnered with a community in Nicaragua for the last several years. Our son was the first to come down with a student trip in August 2011. He came home, saying it was too short and when could he return. We never realized at that time time that our whole family would return together in March of 2012. And we did…We came for just under 2 weeks, and during the end of our time we began to talk about as a family what it would look like to live here for an extended period of time. Not that we would, but more of just a what if sort of way. We talked about housing. Could we live all live in a 10 x 10 (or smaller house) made out of black plastic sheeting and pallet wood? What would it be like to do our laundry in the river, cook over wood fire, have no running water in our home and maybe not even a well…We had so many great conversations around things that just seemed like the basics.
We returned home, also feeling our time in Nicaragua had been too short…About 2 weeks after we were back in Colorado, we were asked if we would ever consider returning for an extended period of time. My first response was no, but as that came out of my mouth, I realized, in fact we really had already been considering it. We had already had many conversations around returning – we’d already began as a family to try the idea on.We talked to our jobs and began to pray and seek the Lord – Did He want this as much as we thought we did?
There came a point in October where we finally made that decision to be all in. There were still so many logistics, etc. but on faith we bought our plane tickets, layed out some of our non-negotiables before the Lord – and asked others to pray with us….the logistics on paper looked really BIG – in our hearts though we always had a lot of peace. The most confirming thing for me about this journey is that all 7 of us felt called by God…we rarely ALL agree on anything, so this was a big deal in itself.We continued to pray and move forward with the details of leaving the country for 6 months. The doors continued to swing wide open for us to go. The finances were coming together, our house was rented, our cars found homes, my job was taken care of. In the end, Mike ended up quitting his job, which wasn’t exactly how we had hoped to be leaving, but as it came down to the end, it wasn’t a deal breaker for us. Our denomination accepted us as Covenanters in Mission – which affirmed us each as missionaries – the kids too, not just the adults, and our local church officially sent us. Feb. came, and off we went.
3. Why did you decide to home-school?
Diane: Schooling was something we gave a lot of thought and prayer to before we left. We considered all sorts of options, and in the end, just did not want traditional school to rule our days. We knew there would be an education to be found right outside our door step, and we wanted to be freed up to engage life as it happened. Our friends the Hollands had the articulation of “live” learning, and we loved the idea of this.We do not home-school in CO. It is definitely something we’ve thought about over the years, just have in the end been excited to share our kids with their public schools. Our local school district is amazing in many ways. Our kids have done well in school, and the idea of taking a semester off didn’t worry us for one second about how ready or not they would be when we would return. Learning is important to us, and so we are in fact quite intentional about making sure our kids have plenty of opportunities to learn. We send them to the mercado to buy groceries for a lesson in math. We’ve kept them reading all sorts of literature, we’ve all taken Spanish from local teachers as a family, we hiked a volcano with a Nicaragua guide who is also a Bird scientist and we learned so much about nature, history, and volcano’s while we did. We visit the tide pools at the beach often and learn about all sort of sea life. We’ve learned about cultural differences, poverty, differences in religion and politics, and SOOOO much more!
Learning about coffee bean planting and harvesting.Bird StudyExploring Volcanoes
4. Is this accepted in the country you live in? What are some of the reactions you get?
Diane: People often ask our kids if they home school – they used to say an enthusiastic “nope”, but now they respond about “live” learning which gets an enthusiastic response! We know some families who home-school, we also know many families who do not school at all – especially their sweet little girls. I think the importance of education is growing in Nicaragua, but there is not in large part a high value on it, and many do not read. A typical day for kids going to school is only 3 hours 4 days a week. Younger kids will go in the morning, and older ones in the afternoon. Many teens work to support families, and if they do go to school go just one day a week for a 1/2 day. Really bright or really wealthy students will be put on a university tract that begins at age 16.
5. What are the challenges of home-schooling in a different country? Do you have a support system?
Diane: We feel very supported in just being us – or maybe it is just that we are so confident that we are doing what God has for us right now, that we do not notice if we aren’t. We are used to living life a bit out of the box, and the responses from others for doing so. If we were to live here full time – year round, we would have to do school differently. We would have to plan ahead and get materials from the states. There are lots of things that just aren’t available here. I had looked into some different online schools before coming down, but I don’t think that we could get consistent enough or strong enough internet to make it work well – to be a viable option.
6. Describe a typical day for us. When do you do school? Where and how do you shop?
Diane: We really live each day as its own day – Nicaragua is a very in the present time culture – so we are trying to embrace it in that way. I am a planner and check list kind of mom, so it has been stretching for me to live life so loosely – it has been really great to engage life so freed up to move at a slower pace. A good gift for us in this season.
We are doing so many things in Nicaragua. We start our days praying and giving it to the Lord. We ask Him – how is it that He would best have us love in these next 14 or so hours that we will be awake. And then we look for what God’s already doing and we see how we can jump on board. We look for ways we can serve all together as a family with are different ages, stages, and bends of personalities. We’ve painted schools buildings and done other maintenance, we’ve taught a lot of art classes at school and out in the park. We’ve jumped a lot of rope, flown a lot of kites, shared a lot of ice cream with hungry kids on the street, volunteered with a local lending library, and listened to so many stories of God’s faithfulness in people’s lives.
Art at the ParkPainting a HouseHanding out mosquito nets.
7. What are your plans for the future in regard to schooling the kids?
Diane: I would say it is all up for grabs – truly…Our oldest will be a senior when we return so we plan to return to their schools in Fort Collins – my older kids go to a super hands on ELS – Expeditionary Learning School and my younger ones to an IB school. We have been really happy with them. We have loved the freedom to school the way we have in Nicaragua though and not be tied down to a school calendar over a year out. So we will just take it a step at a time!
Wow, how inspiring! Thank you, Diane, for sharing with us. And for being brave enough to go on this adventure.
Friends, what convicted me most is when Diane said:” Everyday we ask Him – how is it that He would best have us love in these next 14 or so hours that we will be awake.” What would happen if we all did that wherever we are? I like that the Borden family is taking advantage of all the cultural and practical learning opportunities that are all around them. And what is even better, they are instilling an attitude of service in their children.
I hope you enjoyed this interview as much as I did.
It’s been an exiting week for me. I’m working on another inspiring interview; I can’t wait to share it here next week. And today when I woke up I found an e-mail in my inbox from the copy editor of Babiekins magazine. She had accepted my submission for their children’s street style column. You might remember the two posts I did on Natasha’s spring outfits? 6 of those outfits are featured here. What a lovely surprise. I admire the style and creativity of that magazine. Having my two year old featured is such an honor.
I’ll leave you with some pictures of Natasha and her best friend, getting ready for some adventure.
How is your week going? This is our last week of school. As we are trying to finish up we are also taking turns being sick. Not a fun thing in a family of 8. Any illness takes weeks to cycle through us. Still I manged to take pictures of a few more outfits of my two year old. You might recall the first 4 outfits I did a couple of weeks ago. I hope you are enjoying this as much as I do. Here we go.
Outfit #5:
Jumper by H&M. I bought it during my last year’s visit in Germany. Necklace from World Market.
Outfit #6:
Top from the Tea company. One of my favorite kid’s clothing companies. They design clothes with my girls in mind: stylish, comfy, and soft. I did a photo shoot with my friend last year with our kids wearing all Tea clothing. Shorts are from Target. Mary Jane shoes are thrifted.
And lastly outfit #7:
Yellow jeans from the Gap. Blouse from Old Navy. Socks from Polo. Sock Monkey from Target.
This little two year old is so much fun! Great news, outfit No. 5 and 7 have been featured in Babiekins magazine here.
How was your weekend? Mine turned out to be a little more adventurous than I planned for. My 11 year old daughter’s friend stayed with us. She has been taking riding lessons for a few month. My daughter used to ride but stopped a while ago. Recently she has shown a renewed interest in riding, so as a Birthday present I arranged for the two to go trail riding in the Cibola National Forest east of Albuquerque. I wasn’t going to ride since I had not been feeling so well. However when I checked the girls in there was an extra saddled horse waiting for me. I jumped on the chance and went with them. We rode for over an hour through national forest. It was pretty steep going up and down, but the views were rewarding.
Here are the girls getting safety instructions by our horse guide. My 11 year old is wearing the turquoise jacket.
My daughter’s friend is saddling up.
And we are on the trail.
A wish I had captured the view better. It was quite windy, and I am not adapt to taking pictures while holding the rains…
Here we are an hour and a half later back at the stable with me to the right.
This would be a fun adventure for a family with kids ages 8 and older.
I paid $30 per person plus tax for an hour ride. I would recommend starting with one hour if you are not used to riding (I’m pretty sore today). However Cedar Crest Stables also does 2, 4, and 6 hour rides. Click on the link for more info. If you ride in the mountains bring an extra jacket, it is often colder up there.
How was your week? Any exiting plans for the weekend? Our week went by quickly with the kids trying to wrap up the school year.
Today I took my two youngest out on errands. We went to an area near the university called Nob Hill where my favorite children’s clothing store is. The store ended up being closed, not unusual around here. Store hours tend to be mere suggestions sometimes. Anyway, we had fun strolling around and I got a few cute pics to share with you…
We haven’t camped as a family for years. Our last experience was so bad that we just stopped going. We went when our second child had just turned one. I still vividly remember her tumbling down the hill we camped on, eating dust, and getting too much sun. To top that off, bears kept us up at night. I was done!
Now, if we had a cute camper like this, maybe we would give it another try. Never mind that our family of 8 could never fit inside…
I love this Oilily photo shoot from 2004!! They come up with such creative photo stories.
How about you, do you like camping? Have you figured out how to do it with the whole family?
Are you looking for ways to keep your kids learning throughout the summer? I’d like to share my children’s favorite educational games and videos that make learning fun. These are all for elementary school age. Maybe it will give you new ideas. I promise you, your kids will not even realize that they are learning…
A fun video series teaching science concepts everything from the Human Body to Space. I bought the entire series at Costco. Take a wild ride with Mrs Frizzle going on exiting field trips.
I had fun doing this post. I really enjoy styling and shooting kids. Especially when they are still at an age where they let me. Hope you’ll like it.
Here is Tasha’s outfit #1:
Top is from Okie Dokie. Apparently that is a JC Pennies brand. I got it at a used children’s store called Other Mothers. This is where I trade in clothes all the time. Yellow jeans bought on sale from the Gap.
Outfit #2
Do you see how much fun this is??
Here Tasha is wearing a dress from the Gap (recently bought on sale, of course). The socks are hand me downs probably gone through 10 kids by now…
Outfit #3:
Pants and top from the Gap. I like that the pants are stretchy and have cute pockets in the back.
Outfit #4 for Mother’s Day or other special occasions:
The dress is from Old Navy handed down from Lucille. The shoes are also hand me downs, bought at Target.
Looking at these pictures explains why she is so popular among her siblings…pretty darn cute! Great news, outfits number 1, 2, and 3 have been featured in Babiekins magazine, my favorite children’s fashion website. You can find it here.